~The Single Life~

The serenity of quite nights at home.
No headaches from nagging...{YES, men nag also!}
Freedom to express myself in my own way.
To raise my children the way I want them raised.
To sit in a house that is just a mess with NO guilt!

and then....

Out to meet the masses.....Maybe even get lucky....
Then the realization hits me like a brick wall....
gettin' laid = emotions....this Chica ain't headed that way just yet. I am not through having fun with myself.

There are 2 gentlemen I have wanted to sink my claws into {fellow TDers} that I realized something about last night. I could be the best of friends with them both! ONE of them I LOVE to hug, would be my cuddle bunny, could hug on that man all day and the other is just sweet and one hell of a lot of fun. Laughter is great for any relationship...eerm ...Friendship.

Isn't it a great thing to know, you CAN be friends, even somewhat physical friends, with the opposite sex and have absolutely no strings attached.
I am sure when I am ready to have strings, I will have my pick and not settle like I always have before.
I have learned so much about me in a years time and it feels great.

My love for WOMEN?

YES, I love them, love looking at them, watching them move, kissing them. Women are VERY complex creatures, emotions run VERY high. Even though I have completely amicable friendships with past male companions, I am not so lucky with past female companions.
However, I do have a woman in my grasp, a dominant one even. I think she is very beautiful in every way and she finds me quite the treat {I hope anyway}, but like I said, complex.... Married to an asshole. I want to be able to take her away from it ALL! Can I give her everything she needs? Humm, I just don't think so, not yet anyway! ~wink~

So I suppose that be it fer my psychobabble, I need to get busy cleaning.

Awww...self-realization is a wonderful thing, aye?